Practice Finding a Common Ground With Your Colleagues
Through conversation prompts with strangers just like you
Welcome to the Soft Skills Club!
A place for practicing our communication and negotiation skills, and learning how to hear ourselves and listen to other people.
We're pretty much like Fight club, only instead of punches we throw direct questions at each other — and expect honest answers in return.
What Can I Learn?
📁 Assertiveness
Be confident without being aggressive
📁 Empathy
Active listening and gaining mutual trust
📁 Power
Approach cold calls and presentations with confidence
📁 Embrace feedback
Develop Your Emotional Resilience
📁 Protecting Your Boundaries
Say «no» respectfully and without feeling guilty
📁 Networking
Meet new people effortlessly
📁 Self Promotion
Highlight your achievements confidently
📁 Leadership
Be an inspiring leader
What Is a Conversation Prompt?
A «conversation prompt» consists of simple questions that are different for each participant. A prompt may also include tasks to make your conversation more exciting and rewarding.
QUESTIONS EXAMPLE
An average session consists of 5-7 questions for each participant.
«Describe a situation when you were really pissed off»
Difficulty: easy
«Tell about a project you started, but never managed to complete »
Difficulty: below average
«The most dangerous situation of your life»
Difficulty: medium
«Duties at work that you neglect»
Difficulty: medium
«Past beliefs that you are now ashamed of»
Difficulty: above average
«An aspect of your appearance you were embarrassed about»
Difficulty: above average
«Who are you jealous of the most? Why?»
Difficulty: hard
⭐ TASKS EXAMPLE
If you want to take your conversations to the next level, there are exercises you can do.
Your partner may or may not know what kind of tasks you have.
«During the session, try to smile as often as possible»
Difficulty: easy
«Make it seem like you're not interested in what the person is saying»
Difficulty: below average
«Try to confuse your partner by interrupting him»
Difficulty: medium
«Count out loud how many times your partner says um and uh»
Difficulty: above average
«Whenever possible, argue rudely with the person. The use of swear words is welcome»
Difficulty: brutal
Why does it work?
The bad news is: the only way to be great at communication is to communicate. The good news is that we offer the perfect training environment for it.
💪 Skills, not knowledge
10 conversations are more effective than 10 self-improvement books
🧘 Safe Environment
It is easier to practice communication techniques in a club, where everyone helps each other, than in the office or on the street
🔁 Regularity
Eventually, motivation runs out. Results come from habits.
✔️ Simplicity
Talking to a stranger is much easier than it might seem. But the experience gained in that conversation will stay with you outside of the club.
OUR RULES
#1️
You can’t say anything about yourself at the beginning of the conversation
#2
Everything you say stays between you and your partner
#3
Everyone has the right to refuse to answer any question
#4
The conversation ends when the questions are over or when one of you refuses to answer
#5
If the session ends because someone refuses to answer, participants thank each other and say goodbye
#6
If participants have answered all the questions, they can talk about themselves
#7
The cameras are either on for both, or off for both of you
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Attention
Some of the partners you’ll meet are the "secret observers" that make sure that the rules are kept. Follow the rules, or you may be expelled.
How Does It Work in Practice?
In a nutshell, you choose a topic, and we find you a partner, who:
has a matching level of communication skills
works in the same field as you
#1 REGISTRATION
After you register and fill out the form, you will get to the catalog of prompts.
You choose a prompt, we find you a partner and you make an appointment with them.
#2 BEFORE THE MEETING
You’ll receive the instructions for the upcoming session the day before. It tells you exactly what to do and in what order.
Their name is the only thing you’ll know about your partner. You'll get to find out their personal story if you make it to the end of your session.
#3 THE SESSION
During the session, each of you will follow your own instructions. Don’t disclose to your partner any part of your script (unless the instructions state otherwise).
#4 AFTER THE SESSION
If you make it through all of the questions, you are welcome to share with each other what the session felt like. Don't forget to take our survey after the meeting - this helps us make our stories more engaging and useful.
Who am I going to communicate with? You specify your areas of interest in the questionnaire. We match you with people who have similar interests.
I am uncomfortable. What should I do? Just say it out loud, thank the person you're talking to, and leave the call. Club members won’t be offended by it and won’t take it personally.
Can I go through the same prompt more than once? Yes, there are no restrictions.
Is it possible to communicate without going on the calls? Yes. We have prompts for text communication
Can't attend / changed my mind about participating Just text your partner "I can't meet, sorry.” This is a universal phrase, and it doesn't offend anyone.